When you hold a grudge and do not FORGIVE
You're only holding yourself hostage
I am going to share an insight with you all
I have been dogged by men that I CHOSE
I have been hurt by people generally and personally
I have felt bitter, angry, abandoned, hurt, sad, confused, pissed off.
I put myself through things that weren't serving my highest good
BUT I DECIDED to forgive myself, and forgive those who have hurt me both intentionally, and unintentionally, Karmic or not, and also anything beyond my control. By healing and deciding to forgive, I freed myself and Cast my burdens away. It's a journey and a process that is beautiful.
I am working on a project for women to help empower women the right way to bring them balance, we need the YIN and the YANG, FEMININE AND MASCULINE PRINCIPLES OF THIS UNIVERSE, TOO many Books, websites, coaches and people but do not discuss the importance of BALANCE.
Because of forgiveness, I have gained peace on many aspects of my life and it is a
continuous process So it does not END! This is the best part ! because THE MORE YOU keep going, and allow yourself to Experience life The better this divine journey gets the journey to getting to know yourself more, meeting yourself every day, discovering and re-discovering new and different aspects of yourself, forgiveness alone having a powerful effect upon self. Here are some of the things I have experienced thus far:
I have gained a clearer conscience
Gained MORE HAPPINESS!
I have healed
I have released Guilt, Shame, and feelings of unworthiness.
Learned to LOVE AND LOVE LIFE!
Learned to Humble Appreciate myself unconditionally, respect, & honor me more
AUTHENTIC CONFIDENCE there are several layers of confidence
Internalized my life purposes
ACCUMULATION OF RICHES OTHER THAN MONETARY
I FEEL MORE AND MORE FREE AND CONNECTED TO ALL
More In-tuned with my body.
Fulfilled in spiritual and others ways that cannot be explained
These are only a few examples, At the Age 17, I decided to turn my life around and I did. I will make sure you get to know me more but right now whoever you need to let forgive and release out of your soul spirit and mind Which will manifest in your body too as disease let them GO! Emotions are associated with the organs as well (I suggest you do your personal research, enjoy) You must speak it into existence, cleanse your energy, your spirit, deprogram and reprogram your mind, and cleanse your body. Acknowledge how toxic this can be to you on every level of your being This is the first step. Get out of denial, your reaction and wanting to shut down and run away from hearing the truth at first it only your fear, your pain, your anger, that you suppressed for so long it only make sense but you must be willing to move pass that in order for healing to truly start to take place.
Starts with these phrases:
I release __________________ from me
I am free of ______________
I give myself the permission to forgive _______
I let go of _________
On paper you will need to make three categories make a list of it as well.
1 ) Who do I need to FORGIVE Either write, and then burn or rip it later or contact the person you need to forgive letting them know you forgive them and you're freeing yourself from what they have done to you.
2 ) Who do I need forgiveness FROM : Write or contact again burn or rip if it's possible but write down who and make a list, of people you genuinely think you've wronged and RELEASE IT! Ask for forgiveness we make mistakes sometimes, whether or not they forgive you, it will no longer be your burden.
3 ) Things I need to FORGIVE MYSELF FOR : Write to yourself and mail it, not email. Mail to yourself things you need to forgive yourself for, write down a list and genuinely decide to let go.
It will hurt, it will cause all sorts of feelings in you it's okay. Accept the truth it's the only way you can truly heal and take back or cancel out bad karma, Forgiveness, Love and Truth, free yourself. I hope this blog helped. Until next time, Peace and ♥
