I look at people from a positive angle, seeking positive aspects. This immediately creates a feeling of affinity, a kind of connectedness as humans us been internal beeings I advise you my friend to try to do the same and look at PEOPLE from the inside out and see what happens ;-) calmness and compassion are an important part of living a fruitful, positive human life the basic, underlying nature of human beings is gentleness which in itself is strenght and confidence at it's best form..
